After so many years and finally I have come to the conclusion that ignoring is much better than to listen, people care to give their opinions but they really don’t care.

Nothing is more distasteful in life than an unsolicited advice and a wrong assumption, I have eperience both in great magnitude. I most be the queen of wrong assumptions and as we know it assumptions are generally bad aside from the fact that they are wrong. No one assumes you are doing “good” is usually bad, catastophic , done with it, poor and lacking, freezing cold , under a bridge , no one to talk to , fading away , drownig in debt , in bad physical health and far away from God as you can. If is one thing I can share is this, I dont know where these people get these ideas but they are always wrong and always extreme.

Again I say no one care, they just care to share their feelings and opinions and bad assumptions , anything they can to stop you from sharing your life, to give you a chance to answer the question they have asked “so how are things with you? ” , they already had their answer so why should you answer. To get that akward look you always get when you tell them you are doing great, to see them desperatley looking for the bad on your good news story, to see their dissapointing look in their face when you tell them that the fashion show is coming along well…

Nobody cares, where are those God , the geniune people who want to smile with us and celebrate with us, the ones whom wont unfollow me on IG to the proceed to copy what I do , the ones that will come out to eat with me and not make weir faces when I order my food, you think I don’t see that, as adult as I am, I can truly decide what I eat or not , thanks again for the unsolicited advice , now I know what is on your heart, I have to seat here and pretend to be ok while you judge what is on my plate, grabbing stories to tell , to the others later that day, we should do this again, I can’t hardly wait , look at me now , searching on the internet , what are the signs of a truly good friend, there she goes again, I have stayed in that scene for days, repeating in my head, what happened then, there she is again , the one whom I promised to never see again, the one who takes all in and keeps he mouth shut, to keep the peace again, let us not make a scene at a public place , but I should stand up for myself, I am trying Lord, how did I get to this point, maybe you made me this way, my mother is nothing like her, she will not be disrespected by anyone ever again, who care is they are watching, make a scene , tell them their comments hurt you , don’t hold them inside , if they scream at you scream louder, let them respect you, who care if there are people , let them watch , nobody cares …..